Friday, October 14, 2005

defining moments

we sometimes are in a real dilemma that what should we do in case of defining moments.
for instance there is a situation where we have to choose between a family function or an official meeting, should we attend the best friends wedding or go for an official visit.
in my short life so far i have been in a dilemma so many times , i remember a day when 2 of my closest buddies went for the same interview and one of them got selected , there was a freind who had tears and was sitting in a state of shock and rejection and the other one was on top of the world and was just enjoying the moment and both of them were in mfront of my eyes, it was so difficult to choose , whom to go first?

i know there are gonna be many more instances like this in my latter part of the life and i dont know what will i do then ................
till then ..................

1 comment:

coolsail said...

True it becomes rather painstaking to decide between the two. It so much like choosing between friends and having to pacify both.
Somewhere friends are defined coz they stay with us at our happiest and saddest times. All the ups and the downs. We rarely see too many ppl having frenz who stay at times of pain. The ones which do count in are usually judged by staying together at times which are at lows.
The only prick at this time is to choose whether to feel happy or feel sad.
My only go would be to be together as a group, no matter we go thru an up trend or down trend. Its about sharing them in togetherness.